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When you grow up overweight, everyone notices — not just your classmates, who are too young to have mastered the art of tact, but also friends' parents and teachers.

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I knew I was fat because people told me I was fat, either directly a slap to the stomach and an unkind word or in subtler ways having a teacher rifle through my lunch box and comment on the contents. As an openly gay writer, one of the questions I'm asked most often is, "Were you bullied growing up?

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